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On moving past “never again”

[For readers with fertility struggles, please feel free to skip this post and check out some of my earlier articles].

One of the first words out of my mouth after I gave birth to my first son were “He’s going to be an only child.” And I absolutely meant it.

You see, I had approached having a baby with a lot of hopes and expectations. I was pretty sure I was doing most of the right things and

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2021 Highlight: A year in transformation

If you had to sum up the last year, how would you describe it?

I can think of many words that might be applied to the past 12 months. Words like “struggle,” “languishing,” and “fatigue” all come to mind. The endless unknowing, the personal losses, the surprise disappointments and the tragedies on the world stage were a lot to hold without much of the familiarity of our usual support systems or…

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Common (great!) reasons for starting therapy

If you’re feeling on the fence about whether to dedicate time and resources to high-quality therapy at this time in your life, you are not alone. According to a recent OnePoll survey, 1 in 6 Americans started therapy for the first time in 2020, joining the roughly 15% who were already receiving therapy services.

While you may be concerned that seeking treatment is a sign of weakness,…

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“Healing” is an often misused term, and why I use it anyway

Everyone is searching for something. Whether we label this “something” as relief, release, a fresh start, a new and improved self or transformation, one thing is clear: we know we have an unmet need and we will seek to fill it by any means necessary.

This quality of staying persistent in meeting our needs is part of what makes us human, and is…

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Re-evaluating the New Year: How are you doing with the intentions you’ve set?

It’s been waaay too long since my last post, and I am really excited to reconnect with you on the blog today. Some of you may already be wondering about the title of this article, as we are clearly well into February. But no worries- I won’t hit you with a “Happy New Year” because that time has passed!

The point of this post is to help you stay focused on any intentions or goals that you wanted…

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Four signs that you are experiencing post traumatic growth

You may have been working on yourself for quite some time, coming to terms with past losses, mourning the secure attachments you didn’t have, or rediscovering your true self to improve how you show up in your relationships.

While you have a sense that you are making progress in your recovery…

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Microaggressions, invalidation and the highly sensitive inner child

In the context of our current realities, most of us already know or are quickly learning a lot about microaggressions. Understood to be off-hand statements that are essentially assumptions based on someone’s observed characteristics (race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc), you have undoubtedly been on the giving or receiving end of these incidents in one way or anothe…

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George Floyd, Racial Stress and Intersectionality

If you read the title of this post and hoped that this one article would fully encapsulate or explain the depth of what each of those phrases is referring to, you will likely be disappointed. Not because I won’t make a genuine effort to educate, or, in the case of some, validate, but because these are massive topics with extensive history and/or data points. And while I can be a research nerd, that is not in my lane. So let me just speak to you for a minute.

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10 Simple Self-Care Tips for Social Distancing

Hello there dear readers! It’s been much too long since I’ve been able to connect with you. Between seeing my wonderful clients, chasing after/entertaining/enjoying my emerging toddler and making the constant adjustments necessary for this pandemic period, life has sped up considerably rather than slowing down.

Times are tough, you all- I’m sure you don’t need…

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What is Post Traumatic Growth and Why Does it Matter? Advice From a Trauma Therapist

Hello to all my self-healers👋🏾 Let's start with some background. Post traumatic growth is a theory that was developed in the mid-1990s by psychologists Richard Tedeschi, PhD, and Lawrence Calhoun, PhD. They used it to explain how people sometimes experience dramatic positive change in the aftermath of trauma. Interestingly, they found that those who exhibit this response were not necessarily…

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How you landed in a situationship, and what to do about it

Woah, how did we get here? You're too smart for this, right? Right. And yet, let's assess- you're pinning, they're uncommitted and the majority of your inner circle is giving you side-eye about the whole thing . So what happened?

1. You let fantasy define your reality rather than the facts…

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The Satya Approach: Top 5 Truth Harnessing Practices [Part 2]

In part 1 of The Satya Approach, I spoke with you about how the reluctance to engage truth and/or reality is creating a barrier to the life that you desire for yourself. I wanted to give you a wake up call to start things off, because burying your head in the sand simply isn’t cutting it anymore. And, really, you just deserve better. Here in part 2 I want to offer a few practicals for increasing your ability to work within reality

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The Satya Approach: Harnessing Truth for Change [Part 1]

In the philosophy of yoga, Satya is one of the Yamas, or inner restraints, that explores truthfulness. While the idea of authenticity appeals to most of us, the actual practice of living our truth often requires a great deal of courage. We tend to look at others who are unapologetically themselves and wonder if we could ever really be like them. So, why does something so worthy of imitation feel so unattainable?

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